Constructive Feedback - A Gift

Feed - back means feeding back the genuine and encouraging thougts in oneself or others so as to move in direction of betterment of either oneself or others.
Giving Feedback is a skill because if given in an inappropriate manner then it can be detrimental for the growth of a person especially who is sensitive in nature.
While giving feedback following points to be considere:

1. It should be given in private not in public that is one to one conversation only. This enhances confidentiality and open communication.
2. It should be given in considering the place, time and mood of the person as.
3. Feeback format is PIP
   1. Positive - Initially, speaking about good points of the person. This builds rapport and encourages person to listen.
   2. Area of improvement / Concern - Now, talk about the areas where a person needs to be improved or areas of concern.
      The tone should be polite enough with a perspective that the person is primarily a soul. Respect should be intact no matter what. To do this easily, we can recall that even we commit mistakes and how we want to be treated.
      hence, we should treat others as we want to be treated.
   3. Positive - The conversation should end with a positive note so that the receiver of the feedback is motivated enough to implement the same.

What is Critical feedback ?
A feedback which is full of harshness with an intent to just conveying mistakes of a person.
Dear Reader what's your choice?
Should your feedback be encouraging/gift :) discouraging to a person?
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